The Law of Attraction

Would you be surprised to learn that your success with the Law of Attraction is directly connected to your self-esteem? 

This is because your beliefs about yourself and your life are often determined by the way you think and feel about yourself.

A person with low self-esteem will usually have a much harder time seeing positive results from the Law of Attraction, simply because they’ll block so much goodness from entering their lives.

Take a look at the beliefs below and consider whether you may be struggling with them too:

Believing that you’re not “good enough”

Low self-esteem often causes you to compare yourself to others and find yourself lacking somehow.  You may believe that you’re not attractive enough, successful enough, generous enough, good enough, or you just plain don’t deserve to be happy.

Believing that others deserve it more

A belief in a limited universe usually gives birth to a belief that there isn’t “enough” to go around, and by accepting something for yourself you may be denying others.  This type of belief affirms that you are not as valuable as other people, and you don’t deserve to have what you want if others don’t have what they want.

Believing that the universe is punishing you

If you were raised under the image of a negative universe (or God), you may walk around with a constant sense of guilt and fear that the universe is just waiting for a chance to zap you for doing something wrong.  This fear is quite intense in some people, so much so that they are afraid to even ask for what they want because the universe might deem them greedy or selfish.

Believing that it’s too good to be true

This belief goes along with the ones above, and usually exists because a person is used to having things go wrong all the time.  If you typically hold negative expectations or believe you’re not worthy of abundance and goodness, you might be suspicious of anything positive the universe tries to send your way, and end up resisting it.

All of these beliefs can be overcome when you learn how to love and respect yourself again.  There are many ways to do so, but begin by speaking kindly to yourself, affirming that you’re a good and valuable person, and that you deserve to be happy and successful.  Emphasize your strong points and affirm that you have a lot to offer the world.

Over time, your self-esteem will begin to rise and you’ll find that you’re not resisting the arrival of goodness and abundance into your life anymore.

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