The Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction states that we have the ability to attract into our lives the things that we desire.  When we manage to attract a mate, we must learn to share our life with that mate. 

That includes our time, our energy, our dwelling, our finances, and our dreams.  How does a marriage affect your ability to attract what you want, and are there any boundaries you shouldn’t cross when utilizing the Law of Attraction within a marriage?

Obviously, it is important to sit down with your partner and discuss the things that you need and want, and listen to the things that your mate needs and wants.  From that common ground, you can begin to develop a list of mutual goals to use for your Law of Attraction work. 

Your family, or at the very least your partnership, will require many things, and the more of these mutual desires you can attract, the more blissful your partnership will be.

However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t work on your own, personal dreams and desires.  You should both set aside some time to visualize your own personal wants. 

Together, yet individual is a good stance to take within a relationship.  Yes, in many ways you will merge, but in some ways you will always be separate.  It is important to respect and appreciate those things about one another that you don’t have in common.

As far as boundaries, perhaps the only thing to be cautious of is deliberately attracting something that you know is in opposition to what your partner wants.  If your mate loves living in Florida, but you attract a situation where you must move to Seattle, that’s not really fair to your partner.  Likewise, your partner should not attract things that go against your wishes. 

This may happen accidentally from time to time – if so, talk things over and let them go…

A marriage is about give and take, compromise and solidarity, yin and yang.  You must be willing to meet your partner halfway, but not sacrifice your own needs, nor expect your mate to sacrifice theirs.  This can be difficult at times, but the rewards for keeping balance are great. 

Bliss, happiness, love and joy in your current circumstances can be greater than frustration, unhappiness, and anger in a situation you originally thought you wanted to be in.  Make sure you agree and vibrate together, and your combined will can be an incredibly powerful manifestation device.

Whenever two energies merge for a common purpose, energy moves more quickly.  By working together with your spouse, openly and lovingly, you can very easily attract everything you both want and more in record time. 

Never underestimate the power of a committed, loving relationship from an energy perspective.  Just remember, always respect your partner’s wishes and expect the same in return.  Then your marriage will benefit from the Law of Attraction, and not suffer.

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Is the Law of Attraction an important component in your marriage? If it isn’t, may I suggest it needs to be, and to work on adjusting that immediately.

In Amos, a small book of prophecy in the Bible, we read, “Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?”.

Looking also at Ecclesiastes, widely attributed to King Solomon, we see an elaboration of the value of hearts bonded towards a single purpose, ” Two are better than one, because they have a very good reward for their efforts. If one falls, the other will lift him up, but woe to him who is alone when he falters, and has no one to help him up.”. The meaning here is clear.

If you should begin to show reluctance in  keeping your daily focus time with the Law of Attraction, your partner will encourage you to get back on track. Should you stray from a positive mindset, you partner will firmly, yet lovingly, guide you back to the center of your strength and belief.

As you join your hearts and minds together towards a common goal, the power of positive energy that is being expelled on your behalf is decidedly greater, and therefore, so will the return be.

Consider the great value of melded hearts if there is an imbalance in the time spent or aptness towards reaching for higher planes of conciseness through absorbing the vast written knowledge available. Perhaps one of the couple would rather read than eat, it seems, whereas the other is more visual in their quest for information, seeking instead nature and it’s unending beauty for inspiration.

Truly both gifts have  great value, and if they are shared, compliment each other to a stronger core center. Among the countless worthy of note quotes we can glean from Henry David Thoreau’s warehouse of wisdom is this nugget, “It takes two to speak truth, one to speak, and another to hear.”. So succinct, and yet such glorious depth to contemplate.

Make time in your schedule to bring together the information from your daily experiences, and consider together those that have enriched your life, and those that are to be discarded from future concern. Give time each week to discerning together the actions you will both be taking, separately and as a team, to further your future achievements.

In doing so, not only will your focus towards positive results from the Law of Attraction be greatly enhanced, but your marriage will also see dramatic improvement in all areas…