Some people are looking to hook a specific person, while others just want to find a loving relationship with someone new.  The Law of Attraction is the perfect tool for attracting love, so long as you know hot to go about it. 

 For those of you who are most interested in attracting a particular person, I don’t mean to rain on your parade.  It is possible to attract someone specific.  There are many ways it can happen and many reasons it may work out.  But in the majority of cases I have witnessed, you are more likely to attract someone you don’t know yet who is ten times better than the person you are currently lovesick over. 

That’s actually terrific news, but I’m sure it will come across as a bitter pill.  Just trust the process – you will never regret whoever you do attract!
 
 Keep in mind that pushing your will on others is not a wise choice.  The universe has a tendency to balance things out.  If you attempt to force your will on another person, it is likely that someone else will begin forcing their will over you. 

Instead, make sure that you focus on the feeling of being in love; the butterflies in your stomach, the constant daydreaming, and the astounding amount of pleasure derived simply from holding hands.  When you visualize, use a generic person in your imagination.  If you are really hung on someone, you can use that person, but allow the energy of being with that person to be what’s important in your day dream, not so much that exact person themselves.

 Prop up on your bed, relax in a tub, or chill in a recliner.  Allow your mind to wander off, and daydream to your heart’s content about what it’s like to be in love.  Imagine walking hand in hand, kissing, engaging in your favorite past times, or just gazing into each others’ eyes.  Be as sappy and gooey as you want, or keep it silly. 

Make it a romantic comedy if you so desire.  If you have a warm, tingly feeling, and a desire never to stop the day dream, you are doing it right!

 If you make a habit of doing this for awhile each day, you will attract that special person into your life very quickly.  Do not be concerned with how long it takes – once it has occurred, looking back, everything will have been timed to perfection. 

Be patient and enjoy the process, and know that soon you will enjoy the manifested rewards…

Learning to vibrate with love is about learning to tune in to the blissful existence you can have throughout this lifetime.  Let’s discuss how you can learn to vibrate with love, in order that you might be able to attract and perceive all of the love that is around you.

There are many ways to open to the love vibration.  Some of the most powerful involve working with your heart chakra.  Before doing this, you may need to do some emotional clearing.  Meditate and do some deep breath cleansing, to try and work out any emotional blockages. 

You may want to do more chakra work if you need to, but if you feel ready, then simply meditate while focusing on your solar plexus or heart chakra.  Don’t move, don’t talk, and don’t think – just focus on your solar plexus.  There is a large chakra there which will help you to balance and begin raising energy.

If nothing happens, fine.  You may feel uncomfortable or uneasy.  This might mean that you have something to work out.  If you can remain in meditation and allow this to present itself to you, you can work through it. 

In many cases though, emotional blocks won’t be big enough to prevent you from working with your heart chakra, and heart chakra work is also helpful for clearing past emotional blocks.

In order to vibrate with love, you need to begin seeing the beauty and perfection in everything around you.  Spend a day treating life as though it were a big play going on around you for your benefit. 

Every little thing that happens, no matter how incidental, has been planned for you to see or hear or experience.  If you can stay in this mindset for even an hour or two, you will begin to find the beauty in things, and your heart chakra may begin to tingle.

The most usual way, however, to open the heart chakra to feel love is by raising energy through visualization up your spine and into your heart chakra.  You can do this while meditating, walking, running, working, driving, or almost anywhere. 

On your in breath, visualize white energy flowing up your spine and into your heart chakra.  On your down breath, imagine the white energy coming from above your head, down your spine, and meeting in your heart chakra.

When you get really good at this, you will be able to be aware of both the upward and downward movements of energy simultaneously.  This will allow you to raise energy into your heart chakra even more quickly. 

When you successfully open your heart chakra, you will begin to experience the feeling of pure, unfiltered, unrestricted love.  The more you do this, the more easily it will come to you.  Finally, one day you will find that you spend more time in this loving state that out of it.  Congratulations, you are vibrating with love!

That includes our time, our energy, our dwelling, our finances, and our dreams.  How does a marriage affect your ability to attract what you want, and are there any boundaries you shouldn’t cross when utilizing the Law of Attraction within a marriage?

Obviously, it is important to sit down with your partner and discuss the things that you need and want, and listen to the things that your mate needs and wants.  From that common ground, you can begin to develop a list of mutual goals to use for your Law of Attraction work. 

Your family, or at the very least your partnership, will require many things, and the more of these mutual desires you can attract, the more blissful your partnership will be.

However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t work on your own, personal dreams and desires.  You should both set aside some time to visualize your own personal wants. 

Together, yet individual is a good stance to take within a relationship.  Yes, in many ways you will merge, but in some ways you will always be separate.  It is important to respect and appreciate those things about one another that you don’t have in common.

As far as boundaries, perhaps the only thing to be cautious of is deliberately attracting something that you know is in opposition to what your partner wants.  If your mate loves living in Florida, but you attract a situation where you must move to Seattle, that’s not really fair to your partner.  Likewise, your partner should not attract things that go against your wishes. 

This may happen accidentally from time to time – if so, talk things over and let them go…

A marriage is about give and take, compromise and solidarity, yin and yang.  You must be willing to meet your partner halfway, but not sacrifice your own needs, nor expect your mate to sacrifice theirs.  This can be difficult at times, but the rewards for keeping balance are great. 

Bliss, happiness, love and joy in your current circumstances can be greater than frustration, unhappiness, and anger in a situation you originally thought you wanted to be in.  Make sure you agree and vibrate together, and your combined will can be an incredibly powerful manifestation device.

Whenever two energies merge for a common purpose, energy moves more quickly.  By working together with your spouse, openly and lovingly, you can very easily attract everything you both want and more in record time. 

Never underestimate the power of a committed, loving relationship from an energy perspective.  Just remember, always respect your partner’s wishes and expect the same in return.  Then your marriage will benefit from the Law of Attraction, and not suffer.

Whether this is romantic love, the love in a good friendship, or even the love of your family, love in any form will brighten up your days and help you to manifest your higher intents.  Love is powerful, transformative, and can even lend a huge boost to your Law of Attraction efforts in any area.  Let’s discuss using the Law of Attraction to attract love.

Of course, what most of us think of when we hear the word “love” is romantic love.  You can definitely use the Law of Attraction to attract romance, or even a soulmate.  Just define the characteristics of what you want in your romantic partner and work on visualization sessions each day, imagining being with that person.  It doesn’t have to be a definite person, just make sure that the energy of a nice, relaxed love is there in your imaginings.

You can also attract friends, the type of great friends who will love you and who you will love, using the Law of Attraction.  Simply get some ideas of what types of friends you would like and create visualization sessions around imagining hanging out with a group of great friends.  Slowly but surely you will manifest great friends into your life.

You can also attract other supportive people, such as teachers, coworkers, bosses, and many other types of mere acquaintances who have a very good energy about them.  People who are filled with love will emanate that, and anyone emanating love around you will affect you positively.  Likewise, if you work on becoming more loving, you can also have a powerful positive effect on people you merely come within range of.

The most important thing about love is that it can be a very, very deep and transformative emotion.  When you find yourself feeling a great love for a person or a pet or something else, stop and become still.  Focus on the feeling and feel it as strong as you can.  See if you can pierce the center of it. 

Where is the love coming from?  Where within you is it centered?  Can you emanate it outward?  Can you attract more inward?  This exercise can help you to clear out energy blocks and become happier and more loving.

Good luck in your manifestations, and may you be surrounded with love in every aspect of your life.

Finding great friends is one of the smartest moves anyone can make in this lifetime, and having friends will give you support, companionship, camaraderie as well as challenges. 

You can use the Law of Attraction to attract friends to yourself who will benefit your life and whose lives will be benefited in turn by you.  Let’s discuss how to do attract an assortment of great friends.

First of all, think of your top three passions.  Hobbies, games, business interests, or whatever – you want to choose your favorite three.  Now you can go about visualizing one friend who meets all three of these criteria (loves bowling, hockey games and electric guitar, for instance) or you can visualize one friend for each. 

Depending on whether you’d like one all-encompassing friend or several friends with different related interests, choose your visualizations accordingly.

Keep in mind, you don’t have to manifest just one friend who matches all of your interests – you can repeat the process again and attract a second, third, fourth, etc friend with the same basic make-up.  The sky is the limit, so don’t place any unnecessary limitations on yourself.

Next, pick an interest that you would like to learn more about.  Work on attracting a friend who specializes in that interest.  This can be someone who will teach you, help you along, and later work together on your selected hobby, game, business interest, or whatever.  Add this friend to your daily (or at least every two or three days) visualization exercise, in addition to the first one. 

Feel free to add as many friends of as many varying natures as you like when you imagine.  If you want to fill the room with friends you feel comfortable with, go for it!  It’s your life, and it’s your imagination, so manifest whatever you’d like.  The friends that you attract will add immeasurable wealth to your life.

Once you have finished manifesting all of the friends you want, you should have a feeling in their company that is quite like the feeling you imagined while visualizing them. 

This feeling of comfort, familiarity, and connection is the thing that will let you know when you make a new friend that this is someone you have attracted to yourself.  Appreciate the sign, open yourself a little, and say hello. 

If a friend in your life is dragging you down, is negative, or is not helping you to remain true to your higher self, simply stop focusing on them. 

Don’t think or stew about them when they’re not around, and do not give them too much of our energy or attention when they are around.  They will gradually fade out of the picture, leaving you and the friends of your choice behind.

Good luck with your manifestation efforts – may you attract all of the wealth that great friendships bring and more.

The Law of Attraction can be used to better yourself, but it can also be used to better your family.  You can attract things that will assist or delight other members of your family.  Let’s look at creating a plan to do just that.

First off, think of the members of your family.  Are there any large things that might benefit everyone?  Perhaps a condo on the beach?  A load of tickets to the latest in-town attraction?  Or maybe just a new place where you can congregate and enjoy one another?  There are many things you can choose to benefit the family group.

You can also begin working through relatives, listing a few things that would really benefit each one individually.  Keep a list for your group and individual manifestation desires.  You can work through it little by little.

Here’s the trick to visualizing the list.  It can be difficult to work up a lot of emotional energy and excitement over things that someone else wants.  For instance, if your grandmother collects china dolls, it may be hard for you to get excited about them. 

However, if you focus on visualizing your grandmother’s excitement, you will be able to generate much more feeling.  Imagine each family member receiving the gift(s) you are working to manifest for them.  If you put yourself in the picture, then you will likely be involved.  You don’t have to however, and that will free the universe up to bring things to them through other means. 

It doesn’t matter whether you give them what they want or whether life presents it directly to them – this is your family, you love them, and you want them to be happy! 

One final trick is to begin your visualization exercise with a few minutes devoted to one of your desires.  As you get involved with the visualization and get your emotions moving, you can shift suddenly to your goals for your family members, keeping the momentum you built going. 

This is a dirty switch-out trick, but it works.  The energy is there, so why not use it for what you want but can’t muster much energy for?

Share the Law of Attraction with your family if you can.  Help them to become able to attract their desires into their lives, and you will have given them the greatest gift possible.

And so it becomes important that we can manifest the perfect relationship for ourselves.  For although there are no perfect people, there are perfect matches.

The first thing you need to do is to begin making a list of the traits your ideal mate should have.  Kindness, generosity, loving, gentle, sexual, unpredictable, romantic, practical… there are many variables in personality that are very important.  Of course, we all want a physically attractive mate, so make sure you list that one too.  When you finish, you may have a short list or a very long one.

Now the list is important for you and for you alone.  You will not be manifesting these traits individually, but you can use this list as a guide for the type of person you will be visualizing.  Begin your visualization exercises by placing yourself and your loved one together. 

You may be alone, you may be in public; you may be anywhere you choose.  Walk through a theme park with them, and imagine them smiling and laughing as you both eat cotton candy.  Or imagine cuddling on the beach, watching the moon reflect off the ocean as the waves gently lap at the shore. 

If you can help it, do not give the person any definite physical traits in your visualizations.  If you do, vary them each time you do the exercise, but keep that person’s core feeling the same – that being the way that they feel to you.  The feeling of being with them is far more important than how they look – this is what you are working on attracting. 

Don’t sweat it either way, the important thing is that you are creating the presence of a loving relationship in your life by visualizing one.  The universe will bring this relationship to you physically before long.

Find some insignificant relic, like a rock or something similarly meaningless.  Work it into your visualization that night as something your beloved gives to you, and create a powerful meaning for that item in your imagination. 

Then keep that item with you throughout the day each day, as a reminder of that special time together.  Remember, the universe and your own subconscious can’t tell the difference between reality and a daydream.  By creating this relationship in your imagination and feeding it constantly, your subconscious mind and the universe will bend to bring that relationship physically to you.

All you need to do is keep a feeling of that loving relationship going in your life, from visualization to visualization, week to week, and before long you will attract the perfect person for you.  Enjoy the process – it can be fun and heart-warming. 

Enjoy the result even more…

In Amos, a small book of prophecy in the Bible, we read, “Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?”.

Looking also at Ecclesiastes, widely attributed to King Solomon, we see an elaboration of the value of hearts bonded towards a single purpose, ” Two are better than one, because they have a very good reward for their efforts. If one falls, the other will lift him up, but woe to him who is alone when he falters, and has no one to help him up.”. The meaning here is clear.

If you should begin to show reluctance in  keeping your daily focus time with the Law of Attraction, your partner will encourage you to get back on track. Should you stray from a positive mindset, you partner will firmly, yet lovingly, guide you back to the center of your strength and belief.

As you join your hearts and minds together towards a common goal, the power of positive energy that is being expelled on your behalf is decidedly greater, and therefore, so will the return be.

Consider the great value of melded hearts if there is an imbalance in the time spent or aptness towards reaching for higher planes of conciseness through absorbing the vast written knowledge available. Perhaps one of the couple would rather read than eat, it seems, whereas the other is more visual in their quest for information, seeking instead nature and it’s unending beauty for inspiration.

Truly both gifts have  great value, and if they are shared, compliment each other to a stronger core center. Among the countless worthy of note quotes we can glean from Henry David Thoreau’s warehouse of wisdom is this nugget, “It takes two to speak truth, one to speak, and another to hear.”. So succinct, and yet such glorious depth to contemplate.

Make time in your schedule to bring together the information from your daily experiences, and consider together those that have enriched your life, and those that are to be discarded from future concern. Give time each week to discerning together the actions you will both be taking, separately and as a team, to further your future achievements.

In doing so, not only will your focus towards positive results from the Law of Attraction be greatly enhanced, but your marriage will also see dramatic improvement in all areas…

Wow, what a brilliant analogy! Carrying around bitterness, grudges, hard feelings, and an spirit of unforgiveness only weighs down the person who chooses to keep these feelings festering inside them. It is as if each morning you wake anew, and decide not to take a shower, don’t use any cologne or lotions, and then dress in new clothes to go out for the day.

There is something rotten under all that newness, and it won’t be long before what’s inside becomes noticeable to those around you!

Take some time to consider the times in your life that you have been hurt, disappointed, misused, and even outright abused. May I tell you that you are not alone? May I impress upon you that we live in a world where other people will hurt us, either deliberately, or quite accidentally, and then go along their way as if it never happened. I realize you are waiting for an apology.

I understand you believe you have every right to demand one. I appreciate that you may be justified in your hurt and angry feelings. What I don’t understand is how these feelings are best serving you. It is impossible to live a fully positive and productive life, the one the Law of Attraction and it’s infinite power have waiting for you to claim, with all that negativity in your heart.

I suggest you take inventory of the past hurts in your life. If it helps you to visualize this, please actually write them down, one by one, until you are certain they are all on paper. Now take that paper to a large, beautiful bowl of water and let it float.

Watch the water blur the ink, and watch the paper dissolve to nothingness. Depending on the type of paper you used, this may take a bit of time, however you did not gain all that bitterness in one moment, so spend some time watching it leave you.

Accept that nothing good will be attained through holding on to those feelings, and allow the water, as it dissolves the paper, to also cleanse your spirit. When the paper has fully dissolved the paper, take the bowl outside, and pour the water onto a bush, by a tree, any place where it can be returned to nature for a good purpose.

Now, you have so much more room in your heart, mind and soul to fully and deeply breathe in the wonderment that is your life. `Life is what we are alive to. It is not length, but breadth. Be alive to goodness, kindness, purity, love, history, poetry, music, flowers, stars, God, and eternal hope.’, this from  Maltbie Babcock, moralist writer from the early 1900s.

And finally, from Desmond Tutu:  “Without forgiveness, there’s no future“.

May your future be as bright as your dreams can imagine…